Author Archive for Alex Webley

Life Coach, Business/Corporate Consultant, Counsellor and Shaman.

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“Seeing is believing” – or is it?

“Seeing is believing”

Have you heard that phrase before?
Perhaps you, like many others, believe it yourself?
Perhaps you are not even consciously aware that you believe it, and that your life is based upon the idea.
People who “believe it when they see it” only get involved emotionally with images and concepts which they can discern with [...]

Who is the family beast?
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Who is the family beast?

The family beast?
Does this sound like some medieval term for the family horse, cow or dog?
The family beast is one way of describing these people:
“If you have only one smile in you, give it to the people you love. Don’t be surly at home, then go out in the street and start grinning ‘good morning’ [...]

I am stupid!
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I am stupid!

If there is one thing I know that I, myself, am, it is that I know that I am stupid!
Knowing that I am stupid is one of the most valuable teachers that I have.
Knowing that I am stupid causes me to accept correction when I am wrong.
Knowing that I’m stupid causes me to take new [...]

New office chair (for the cat).
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New office chair (for the cat).

This week I bought a new office chair.
Because of my cat.
It’s all her fault.
My girl cat Nimue likes stealing my office chair. It is not related to heat because she sits in it when I haven’t used it for ages. At times she sleeps on it.
If I borrowed my wife’s chair (when she was out) [...]

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2010-03-06

RT @Randy_Thompson: "People with higher happiness scores on psychological tests have up to 50% more antibodies." – Stress Institute April05 #
RT @supermom_in_ny: If you hear a voice within you say ‘you cannot paint,’ then by all means paint, and that voice will be silenced-Van Gogh #
Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating
yourself. George [...]

Personal development can be uncomfortable.
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Personal development can be uncomfortable.

Comfort zones – and why you are better off in the ‘Uncomfortable zone’.
So many people love their comfort zones.
It is understandable in a way, however if you are serious about personal development and growth then spending time in the ‘Uncomfortable zone’ will generally produce better results.
An ‘Uncomfortable zone’ is a situation where you either have [...]

BSOD or computer operating system failure - one way you can avoid it.
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BSOD or computer operating system failure – one way you can avoid it.

A BSOD, or other computer operating system (OS) failure is usually a big inconvenience and waste of valuable time.
(BSOD = Blue Screen Of Death).
Perhaps you remember all the stress, pain and other feelings associated with the experience?
Should your computer be crucial for your everyday business or personal tasks, then you simply cannot afford a failed [...]

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Second Financial Economic Crash Coming – Huge & Soon

Are we really through the worst of the Global Financial Crisis (GFS)?
This video is a must see for everyone I think. Including us here in Australia.

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2010-02-27

RT @Pierre_Paperon: Can You Trust a Facebook Profile? http://cli.gs/5rRrQ Surprising study … #socialmedia #
Broadband not up to speed, say Aussies http://bit.ly/9y1KDU Slow, & mean quotas. Australia needs better access to keep up w digital economy. #
Rogue mobile apps targeted by new Symantec suite http://bit.ly/dgdeGJ #smartphones #iphone #android #
Berlusconi buys Napoleon's 'priceless' bed – and [...]

Need hearing aids? Worried about parasites of the monetary kind?
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Need hearing aids? Worried about parasites of the monetary kind?

I am deaf. I have about 70% of  normal voice tones and 95% of background tones.
I was not born deaf and various theories have been put forward as to why I became deaf. I know why I am deaf.
For years I have worn hearing aids. In the United Kingdom I am officially registered as disabled; [...]

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2010-02-20

Veterans for Academic Freedom http://bit.ly/b0zvrX #university #tertiary #universities #academia #
EarthCam – Webcam Network http://bit.ly/duVNcg #
Created by UK Child Exploitation & Online Protection (CEOP) Centre, ThinkUKnow Australia = developed by AFP & Microsoft http://bit.ly/cVWg0X #
RT @markarenella: Be sure you put your feet in the right place, then stand firm – Abraham Lincoln #fb #
Royal Navy warships [...]

Free MIT online photography courses
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Free MIT online photography courses

Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) is offering some free photography courses online.
More detail here:
http://www.petapixel.com/2010/02/16/mit-photography-courses-online
MIT have other free online courses – more info here.
For those who want more information about MIT, which is a quality institution, click here.

A British friend tells me that their (our) flag has been changed.
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A British friend tells me that their (our) flag has been changed.

My friend writes:
We have all the same problems here that you have in Australia. Whatever happened to the politicians that were proud of their country and did what they thought was right for the people?

New Government Seal:

Official Announcement:
The British government today announced that it is changing its emblem from a Union Flag to a CONDOM [...]

The Innate Power of a Hug
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The Innate Power of a Hug

Some spiritual ’schools of thought’ believe that entire humanity is made up of shards of one whole soul. This means that man shares a portion of something that is much bigger than they are. What does this imply? It simply tells us that we are all connected in one way or another. Believers of the [...]

Optimizing Your Time For Better Time Management
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Optimizing Your Time For Better Time Management

A key method of making full and proper use of your time is to prioritize the goals you first need to achieve. This will help you to improve your time management skills.
Prioritization is essential.
Most of the time, many of us feel that we have too many things to do and too many requirements to fulfill. [...]

Are you poisoning your pet?
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Are you poisoning your pet?

No doubt you mean well, or are just plain unaware of the poisoning risks to your pets.
Check out this excellent resource:
Animal Poison Control Center
…..it’s part of the American Society For The Prevention Of Cruelty To Animals (ASPCA) site, which contains lots of other helpful and interesting information for animal lovers.
And by the way…pets are for [...]

Help with talking to your kids
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Help with talking to your kids

Hire a teenager…….while they still know it all!
The above bumper sticker says a lot about how we view young people, children; and of course – their attitudes.
Many people struggle with talking with their children.
Personally, I think that many problems we have with young people stem from how our society (the adult part) treats and regards [...]

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2010-02-13

BBC – Languages http://bit.ly/cNdknv Free language courses. #education #
Romantic hotel rooms Portobello Bayswater London – Millers Residence http://bit.ly/9zYCOi A hidden gem indeed. #travel #tourism #
RT @Palidan: "Science does not know its debt to imagination." ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson #
The Free Enterprise Nation http://bit.ly/c1KhdN #
Big changes proposed in psychiatric diagnoses – Mental health http://bit.ly/bVj9EV #psychiatry #
Police [...]

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2010-02-06

Aerobic exercise a waste of time for some people http://bit.ly/aZHcaz #health #
DNA proves Charles Darwin was right http://bit.ly/ap156J #
Students to tour emergency departments to see effects of booze fuelled violence http://bit.ly/97qYXU Good idea #
Teens lose interest in blogging, Twitter http://bit.ly/962hJz #socialmedia #
What travel agents don't want you to know http://bit.ly/al73Ro #tourism #
Girl buried alive in [...]

Pet's Wish List
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Pet’s Wish List

This list is common around the Internet in various forms. I am unsure of who is the author of this version.
The list is called the “Pet’s Ten Commandments”.
Personally I prefer to call it a ‘Pet’s Wish List’. We should all be doing these things as a matter of course, however many items can get overlooked [...]

Do you hate your job? Are you a wage slave?
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Do you hate your job? Are you a wage slave?

Hating your job is very common.
If you hate your job you are really a wage slave.
A slave to your wage; attending your workplace to pick up your pay and somehow get through your day.
It sucks whichever way you look at it. You can’t possibly give of your best to your employer – you know….. the [...]

Too Old? Think again!
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Too Old? Think again!

Think you are too old to work?
Too old to start something new?
Or perhaps you are an employer with a bias against hiring older people?
One of my hats is that of Private Investigator and I have a friend, Mark Grover, who owns one of Australia’s premier Private Investigation agencies. They handle cases both here in Australia [...]

Time management - 20 minutes a day is really worth 3 working weeks!
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Time management – 20 minutes a day is really worth 3 working weeks!

Have you ever wondered why sales people often break down a cost into so much per day?
Perhaps you have seen those ads where they talk about how something costs less than a cup of coffee per day?
These are attempts to get you to see things differently than you normally would and obscure the cost (shock) [...]

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Being the Best of Who You Can Be

The word best is relative. Some people think that they become better people when they’ve climbed the ladder of success and reached the top, sometimes by stamping on other people as they climb. Some, on the other hand, believe that a happy family life will make them the best that they can be. The word [...]

Emotional Quotient Trumps Intelligence Quotient
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Emotional Quotient Trumps Intelligence Quotient

What makes EQ (Emotional Quotient) different from IQ? Where IQ measures your general intelligence, EQ measures your level of emotional intelligence. Basically, it is a sort of emotional inventory where you are given a way of better understanding the world around you. It is the ability to sense and understand your emotions and the emotions [...]

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Do you have trouble writing for readers?

Someone I know mentioned that they have trouble writing for readers…
…..and also asked what I considered to be one of my most poignant and deep articles.
Here I share with you my response:
One of the big keys in life is having a deep awareness of the fact that other people are tuned into WII FM.
This radio [...]

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2010-01-30

Microsoft Answers Home Page http://bit.ly/alqFLw #
The amazing moment a diver swims alongside nature's most lethal killing machine… an 11ft American crocodile http://bit.ly/8Z5pEn #wildlife #
Pictured: Three cheetahs spare tiny antelope's life… & play with him instead http://bit.ly/bs7bGe Beautiful pics. Cats are nice! #wildlife #
Bleak future for Twixx the sex-starved owl who wakes neighbours hooting for a [...]

Australia Day 2010 - The Great Australian Internet Blackout
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Australia Day 2010 – The Great Australian Internet Blackout

For some general detail about Australia Day and my personal views please check out my post from Australia Day 2009.
First, let me wish everyone a Happy Australia Day 2010 wherever you are.
This year, I am marking Australia Day by participating in The Great Australian Internet Blackout.
The Blackout is a protest at the Rudd government’s dictatorial [...]

The Big Benefit of Time Management
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The Big Benefit of Time Management

Effective time management requires–you guessed it–time. It seems a bit of a paradox, doesn’t it? To develop effective time management skills and effectiveness, you must take more time out of your busy schedule which already contains more tasks than you have time to accomplish. The investment of time used to schedule and [...]

Why I like postal letterbox junk mail and Google ads!
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Why I like postal letterbox junk mail and Google ads!

These days we often hear people complaining about junk mail in their letterbox and Google ads. In fact, the lack of ads is listed as a benefit for some types of online services when you take up the paid version. To me, the removal of the ads is actually a negative! My ideal is to [...]

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2010-01-23

Israeli aid arrives in Haiti, field hospital set up 17-Jan-2010 http://bit.ly/5rVJRf #IDF #
Israeli field hospital treats,operates on 100's Haitians daily – only fully-functioning operating theater in Haiti http://bit.ly/4wJ7w3 #IDF #
Dynamic Earth @ Nat'l Museum of Natural History http://bit.ly/5XVppd Gems & Minerals,Rocks & Mining,Plate Tectonics & Volcanoes,Solar System #
Prince 'no obstacle to Australian republic' http://bit.ly/5R4EG5 #
Hacking [...]

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Will Social Media and The Internet Kill the University System?

The title of this post comes from a very thought provoking article:
Will Social Media and The Internet Kill the University System?
The post comes from the Microgeist blog which provides social media resources, tips and commentary on the mood/spirit of microspace. I have added the blog to my RSS reader.
You can follow the author on Twitter [...]

Live out of your imagination
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Live out of your imagination

Earlier today I published a post about logic and imagination, commenting that Albert Einstein said:
“Logic will get you from A to B. Imagination will take you everywhere.”
Today we will look at what Dr Steven Covey had to say:
“Live out of your imagination, not your history.”
Another pertinent quote, is that of Blair Warren:
“If you want to [...]

Are you a logical snob?
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Are you a logical snob?

So who, or what, is a logical snob?
First let’s define the word snob, as per the dictionary:
n.
1. One who tends to patronize, rebuff, or ignore people regarded as social inferiors and imitate, admire, or seek association with people regarded as social superiors.
2. One who affects an offensive air of self-satisfied superiority in matters of taste [...]

Are you a study cheat? And who are you really cheating?
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Are you a study cheat? And who are you really cheating?

Cheating on exams and other forms of study has been around the generations. Today it is becoming even easier to cheat us this article illustrates:
Teens turn to the net, mobiles to pass tests
The article covers a number of interesting points on the subject of cheating. Of particular note is:
“Only half of the students surveyed considered [...]

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How to remain positive

Remaining positive is not always an easy task. For some, it is very hard indeed. In some situations it is hard to see how anything positive can come out of them.
So how do we remain positive, even in difficult situations?
By taking a different approach than we may have come across before.
Same old methods produce [...]

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Inspiring example of positive thinking

Here is an example of someone turning an extremely negative and unpleasant situation into a positive one, and in the process deriving personal benefit, besides being a blessing to others.
Back in March 1945, W. Colvin Willams was on foot, walking behind a tank in France. When the tank hit a mine it exploded and Mr [...]

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Stop…Think…Do.

Life is so busy today – so many people seem as if they are in such a rush, trying to do so much in so little time.
Stop for a moment and consider the picture as if you were a giant looking at all the humans running around in such a busy frenzy. I think it [...]

The House of 1000 Mirrors
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The House of 1000 Mirrors

Long ago in a small, far away village, there was a place known as the House of 1000 Mirrors. A small, happy little dog learned of this place and decided to visit. When he arrived, he bounced happily up the stairs to the doorway of the house. He looked through the doorway with his ears [...]

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Twitter Weekly Updates for 2010-01-16

My cheating husband tried to seduce a sexy blonde on Facebook – what he didn't know was that it was me..http://bit.ly/58Jp00 #investigations #
WSPA Animal Rescue "Emergency aid needed for animal victims of natural disasters." http://bit.ly/5lnUDA #
Twiangulate http://bit.ly/61eGE5 Example use: Find out who people with similar interests/focus are following in common. #twitter #research #
Star Viewer: an [...]

Easy, reliable way to test your firewall.
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Easy, reliable way to test your firewall.

I first started using a Firewall way back in the 90’s, at a time when many people had never even heard of them. Around the same time I came across an excellent service for testing firewalls:
Shields Up – provided by the Gibson Research Corporation; owned and operated by Steve Gibson.
I quote:
The Internet’s quickest, most popular, [...]

Enjoyable, refreshing experience ordering laser toner for my printer. (Australia)
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Enjoyable, refreshing experience ordering laser toner for my printer. (Australia)

Last year I purchased a Lexmark C543dn Color Laser printer.
So far, I have been pleased with the performance, features and ease of use of my choice of printer.
A while ago I ordered a black cartridge from a supplier I had bought other things from in the past, but was not totally happy with the price, [...]

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Personal reflections on Shamanism

Earlier today I sent the following link to a friend:
BOMB Magazine: Margaret de Wys – Black Smoke: A Woman’s Journey of Healing, Wild Love, & Transformation in the Amazon
I won’t detail my friend’s response for privacy reasons, however some people may find my reply helpful:
The vomiting I experienced was dry retching in type and was [...]

Are you stagnating? Well, are you?
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Are you stagnating? Well, are you?

“Only those who constantly retool themselves stand a chance of staying employed in the years ahead.”
Tom Peters – Author
Whether we like it or not, the world is changing, and at an increasing rate too.
We need to embrace change, savor it and look for it.
Personally, I am riding the bleeding edge of the wave and certainly [...]

Great service from Gold Coast Computer Store - FS Computers
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Great service from Gold Coast Computer Store – FS Computers

It was time for a new keyboard.
These days I buy Microsoft keyboards and mice exclusively. (Early last year I bought a Logitech top of the line mouse – MX Revolution – which became faulty early on. I am still trying to get the situation resolved with Logitech. I have received appalling customer service and support [...]

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The right to link

Your right to create, circulate and follow links is threatened.
This issue is very serious.
Watch the video to find out more and visit  the www.Right2Link.org website to take action to protect your rights:

Further reading:
An Open Letter to the UK’s national, regional and local newspapers
NewsNow.co.uk Free Linking Q&A
NewsNow.co.uk

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If you think you can’t – you can’t.

Some of us may have read about this thinking business whereby if you think you can, then indeed you can. And vice versa.
How many of us can recall key examples of this in action?
Personally, I find real life examples inspiring and helpful. Especially if accompanied by images and a good background personal account.
So many of [...]

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New depression video added

Years ago I used to suffer from chronic depression.
My depression was so bad I longed for death; but was too afraid to do myself in.
In this video I tell more about my personal situation and how it has given me key practical insights and experience to help others with depression, or feelings of sadness.

PS: Today [...]

Green tea - some key information.
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Green tea – some key information.

Last year I wrote a post about a local Sushi and Yum Cha restaurant. This restaurant, Sushi 4 U, was where I developed a taste for green tea some years ago. In fact, I liked it so much that I went to the grocery store to get my own.
There was just one problem….green tea can [...]

Humorous look at privacy online - The Google Toilet
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Humorous look at privacy online – The Google Toilet

Way back…last century…(yes, it is way back now, especially bearing in mind how far we have come in such a short time)….with my Private Eye hat on I used the Internet to find out things about people. It was surprising how much was out there – back then.
Today it is even ‘worse’. I laughed when [...]

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