Emotional Quotient Trumps Intelligence Quotient
What makes EQ (Emotional Quotient) different from IQ? Where IQ measures your general intelligence, EQ measures your level of emotional intelligence. Basically, it is a sort of emotional inventory where you are given a way of better understanding the world around you. It is the ability to sense and understand your emotions and the emotions of others as well. If you are highly aware of the feelings of people, you will be able to build long-lasting and beneficial relationships with the people in your life.
Emotional intelligence is one of the best things you can acquire. If you are highly mature about sensing feelings of others and adapting to people’s moods, you can assure yourself of success in practically every area in your life.
Have you ever noticed how some people become genuinely successful even if they don’t possess your traditional ideas of what intelligence is? It is often because that person is emotionally stronger and more versatile. If you are unsure whether emotions play a crucial role in your career, then imagine yourself being given the task to execute complicated yet highly rewarding projects. An assignment of this scope usually involves a lot of decision making. Your opportunity for growth now hinges on this one task, and making adept decision making calls for a calm and steady mind. Emotional flexibility helps you to adapt to these very demanding situations immediately. Emotional maturity and stability are very important! If you crack under pressure then you run the risk of failure.
In business, a high EQ improves performance. It can help you become more productive by improving your skills in decision making. You become a superior performer who people can highly count on. It’s being street smart, as some folks prefer to call it.
Your emotional quotient, therefore, rests on your ability to understand others and relate effectively to them. When you’ll know how your actions can make an impact on others, it is easier to make a decision because you now know what not to do. You are able to build strong relationships, reduce stress, and motivate yourself and others to get the job done.
To increase your emotional intelligence, you have to become aware of your feelings and of how others will react to them. You also need to learn how to empathize. Put yourself in other people’s shoes and try to understand the motives behind their actions. We know that our experiences have helped shape who we’ve become. And knowing that we have had different experiences, we also value diversity. This is what makes each of us unique. Be grateful for these differences and celebrate your uniqueness as a person. When we become aware of how each of us was shaped, we become more understanding. Life, after all, is what we make of it.
To enjoy a good life, you have to be at peace with yourself and with the people that surround you. Stop finding faults. Instead, concentrate on how you can succeed despite these faults.
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