Did your parents rob you?

One of the key responsibilities of parents is to instill and encourage a sense of positive self belief in their children.

Did you parents do that for you?

My father and mother didn’t – both in different ways.

My father for example referred to me regularly, from a young impressionable age, as:

• Pest
• Little Bastard
• Problem
• Liability
• Useless
• Just like your mother

He often added some powerful ‘flavors’ such as:

• Hate
• Anger
• Scoffing
• Laughing
• Humiliation
• Excessive beating (fellow pupils were horrified when they saw the marks)

My parents made a mess of me and my life from early on – ‘coding’ me with failure consciousness and all sorts of other problems.

Today I have turned my life around, in spite of them. Neither of my parents have apologized or tried to put things right.

As such, they are still in one sense perpetuating what they did.

A key to turning my life around was realizing that while blame for the situation rested firmly and squarely on my parents’ shoulders, the responsibility for fixing it rested with me.

Believing in myself was a crucial aspect to my healing and freedom.

“Every achiever that I have ever met says, ‘My life turned around when I began to believe in me.’”

Dr. Robert Schuller – Minister and Author

If you need help recovering from your parents then please get in touch. I will help you. I can because I know. I have been there; in the situation you are in. I understand the huge issues involved, the confusion, the complexities, the subtle psychological aspects. I understand your pain.

Today, I have great inner peace and joy (and no, I’m not a religious, happy clappy pharisaical freak). I will show you how you too can experience it.

Paradoxically, I am now very grateful that I had such arseholes for parents. (and siblings).

Why?

Because over the years I have met lots of people who had good parents, and who are well adjusted and happy. None of these have ever had the level of peace and joy that I do. I realize of course that when you have experienced a negative you tend to appreciate a positive much more than people who have not had the experience (negative); however my situation goes way beyond that. Without such awful parents I never would have learnt what I did, or experienced the things I have.

It’s rather ironic really – things intended for ill became a springboard for great positives. It’s very deep too. It has been a very comprehensive education in the true meaning of positive attitudes and thinking standpoints/paradigms.

The tragic thing is that most people who have the kind of problems I had either do not survive (suicide is common) or continue to make a terrible mess of their lives and mental head-space. Many of these people depend on drugs; including alcohol, prescribed medications and illegal drugs.

In time I will write more about the road to freedom. In the meantime, if you need help recovering from your parents, school teachers or other abusive adults you encountered when you were a child please get in touch. I will help you.

I KNOW what works. I LIVED it and LIVE it.

Don’t let the bastards win for the rest of your life. Overcome them and their evil intent. Contact me today.